Hi folks just thought I would put my wee tuppence worth in ,yip the menopause knocked me for six as well,as in few other posts I have menopause after surgery and was told it would not be gradual I would go right in and boy were they right I started with few flushes and sweats then they just went off scale then the confusion and muddled words kicked in and have brain rot and the concentration of a gnat {not that I am an expert on gnats},all this plus still recovering from surgery as just 4 and a half months in ,so discomfort from that,,lack of sleep,being weepy and other joys the menopause brings,i sure I have turned into a she devil I am sure I will see horns when I look in the mirror , my poor husband takes one look at my face and just says 'will I just be quite till you tell me otherwise' bless him he been so good through all this.Guess it so hard to understand if you not a woman going through it,as I posted earlier the women on this site have been a god send full of understanding and compassion and can have a rant without feeling guilty or daft,i am sure there Is light at the end of the tunnel no clue when my light will show itself but hey ho get there eventually and a rant now and again helps better than crying
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all the time.