It is sad how the warden role has changed. When Mum first moved into her bungalow over 20 years ago, the warden lived in the house which came with the job just around the corner. Her (retired) husband did any little jobs required and she ran lots of "extras" like lunches and clubs. If she didn't think a resident sounded 100% when she called them in the morning, she always "popped round" to check and often stayed for a coffee and a chat. There are now 2 (one 9 - 3, one 9 - 12) and they spend most of their time filling out forms and calling in workmen.
All the activities are run by a enthusiastic resident and she checks up on people more than the wardens do.
The warden complained to me that relatives didn't always update them on what was going on, so when Mum came home from hospital I made a real effort to do so but was usually met with negative comments about support and carers like "Well, that's what they say but I bet it doesn't happen." This at a time when I was having to work very hard to keep my head above water.
In fact, on one occasion I said "Sorry but I really don't need this right now" and walked out. I am no longer surprised that relatives don't update them! Sadly, it's no longer a "caring" role, more a pen-pushing one from what I can see.
Thanks ladies for your advice. I've spoken to the Interim Care Team and they appreciate my concerns and have agreed to continue with the 2 visits a day, even though she no longer needs the "rehab" they're meant to provide. They're going to chase up SS as they can't understand why her care package hasn't been sorted yet; there's obviously been a glitch as others who they started with after Mum have already been handed over weeks ago.
Bette x