Mum's confusion came and went when she was in hospital, Eddie. Some of it was due to a urine infection, some just to the situation and stress, I think. The nurses were very aware and good with it. There were notices everywhere asking for relatives to tell the nurses if they noticed confusion so that they could test for urine infections.
It's slowly improving now that she's home in familiar surroundings and recovering physically.
It's good that you're having a meeting about carers. Mum's still under the Interim care Team and it's been really good having them go in (three times a day initially, twice now.) They've tested for urine infections, sorted out a (old recurring) boil on her back by calling in the District Nurse, put her on Fortisip drinks because she wasn't eating enough, encouraged her to work her way through a 2-pint container of water every day. I still go over most days and speak to her on the phone several times a day but it's reassuring for us both to have professionals involved.
Please push for all the help you can get; you'll still be heavily involved (I'm always on the phone to the carers sorting out stuff, picking up prescriptions, doing her shopping and washing etc.) but it's a relief to know that someone is seeing her when I'm not there and will flag up (or actually deal) with any problems.
Sorry to hear about F.I.L. but from what you've said, it would have been a happy release.
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Bette x