Thanks Ladies for your advice, Cazza, i have just been on that site, some good financial advice there, really need to push the council/social work which i will do tomorrow. Susan i will check out mse website too, It's the same something sad that's kept me off here too, but i felt today that i needed to air my frustrations, so i'm back.
Trey. I think you are right about the UK/US, it just seems to take so long to get services in place.
I meant to say also, she had a colonoscopy on Monday and found something wrong, biopsies were done and we should back within a week, so not sure what to think there, we are waiting for a memory clinic appt (6 weeks) after she was wandering about outside and fell, we only found out because her back and hips became very bruised, a week later her neck and head became very sore and we took her to A&E who did ct and xrays then took her off her warfarin and said she had just been very lucky.
Eddie. x