Hi Susan,
You asked "Do you think you defiantly have VA, you would know as the main symptom is feeling like you want to pee all the time. but it can also mean painful sex, impossible smear tests and feeling like you are on fire down below."
Not 100% sure it is VA but the symptoms indicate it could be, I have frequency issues, not like cystitis, but need to pee a lot (sometimes no sooner have I been then I need to go again, but its not all the time mostly mornings)...also I am noticing since not having had a period since January, that I just feel drier in that area generally, not itchy just less comfortable.
Also my GP prescribed me some vasicare, to help with over active bladder, and cant say it really helped a lot with the urethra disomfort on peeing, and the feeling of needing to go. Had urine tested and no cystitis.