My Dad is a convert to aromatherapy after being introduced to it during a recent stay in a hospice (he has terminal cancer) - he had two sessions of aromatherapy relaxation and loved it. Ooh - that gives me an idea for his Christmas present!!
Scampi - that is really good to hear. When my Dad was terminally ill he used to say that his feet hurt where they were constantly pressing into the bed. He was never a touchy-feely type of person but one day I asked him if he'd like me to rub his feet and he agreed. I was so surprised that I just got on and did it, and ran down to the hospital shop and bought him 3 prs of cotton socks, as he also said his feet were cold. I ended up doing this most days for him as he just lay back and totally relaxed while I did it and it was so comforting to be able to help him in some small way & feel close to him.
After he died I made up my mind to train as a Massage Therapist (which was a one year course) and then qualified in Indian Head Massage after that. Massage is wonderful for relaxation especially but useful for lots of other problems.